As E. doesn’t really like playing alone and wants to be with Mommy all the time we need to do housework together. Actually, she is a great helper and likes taking part most of the times. I’ve read a lot about Maria Montessori and her method on the net and in this book:
I do not wish to popularise her method, I just found some interesting points I can build in my parenting theories and also in our bilingual journey. One of them is:
“He who is served is limited in his independence”
Doing housework together means a lot of language input, quality time together and E’s preparation for real life assisting her in her developing independence.
IN THE KITCHEN
– Preparing food for cooking
Opening pea pods help to develop E’s fine motor skill.
She could examine how the peas are in the pod.
She also learnt a sequence: taking one pod out of the bag, putting the peas in a bowl, placing the empty pod in the rubbish bag.
She can help wash the peas, but as soon as I turn the hob on she is finished in the kitchen.
Vocabulary newly learnt or practised:
   green peas
   pod
   crack
   separate
   throw it away
   grub
   off
   tiny
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cutting the butter-bean up |
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examining the inside |
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placing the beans into a pot |
Using a knife is something E has been longing for. With my very close supervision she had the chance to try it and found it hard: – Mommy, cutting is difficult.
Helping make the bean dish didn’t mean she ate it 😦 although according to some blogger moms, their children became really enthusiastic to eat the food they prepared themselves.
Vocabulary newly learnt or practised:
  chopping board
  knife, knives
  pot (stripy, big, empty, full)
  butter-bean
  bean dish
  What’s yummie for you? (offers the practice or revision of a lot of food)
  wash
  dirty, dirt
– Baking:
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whisking |
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I made this rhubarb cake |
Baking a cake has a better chance of success in the eyes of your child. They are more likely to consume what they made. It also involves a lot of kitchen tasks and equipment and the activities have to follow each other quickly, which keeps up the interest of a young kid. Developing gross motor skills is also a key point here, like whisking, mixing, measuring, stirring, pouring etc.
Vocabulary newly learnt or practised:
  flour
  baking powder
  rhubarb
  cake
  scales
  measuring spoon
  wooden/mixing spoon
  bowl
  whisk
  mix
  stir
  grab
  crack an egg
  white/yolk
  lick the spoonÂ
  apron
  delicious
  tasty
  sweet
  sour
  hot
  dangerous
  baking try
  heat the oven
– Packing in and out of the dishwasher:
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emptying the baby bottle into the sink |
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putting the baby bottle into the dishwasher |
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placing the cutlery into their draw |
 After a while I rearranged a shelf so she can easily reach her spoons, plates and glasses.
This is E’s favourite household chore. No matter when I ask her to help with it, she never refuses. (It’s not the case with hanging the clothes to dry). Also, she practises with this chore how to select and group similar objects, to name the objects and say their colours or material. She also learns where to find things she needs around the house.
Vocabulary newly learnt or practised:
  cupboard
  cutlery
  tablespoon
  fork
  knife
  teaspoon
  ladle
  glass
  mug
  cup
  pot
 bowl
 plate
 draw
 sharp
 dangerous
 carefully
 place
 baby bottle
 plastic
 steal
IN THE BATHROOM
Another pleasant activity for E is to help with the laundry. Packing the clothes in the washing machine is not as much fun as pulling the wet clothes out.
 Usually we put some of her clothes in a separate basket and while I’m putting the adult clothes on the rack, she is putting hers on a smaller rack (which we bought at REGIO toy shop but also available at Fakopáncs online toy shop)
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hanging the clothes |
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opening the dry rack |
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fixing it with a peg |
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socks |
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matching socks with Daddy |
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on the way to the draw to put the socks away |
This is not her favourite activity but she uses her English (and Hungarian) a lot when she is in the mood to help.
Vocabulary newly learnt or practised:
  washing gel
  softener
  dry rack
  hang
  line
  clothes peg
  match
  carry
  fix
  dry
  still wet
  pull out
  pack in
  laundry basket
  dirty
  clean
  take off
  names of clothing (socks, tights, trousers, shorts, T-shirt, blouse, panties, vest etc.)
  Daddy’s, Mommy’s, E’s
MISCELLANEOUS
The best part for me is when we decorate our home together. Of course, when she paints or creates something I put it on the wall or in her room. However, she takes pleasure in decorating for us not only for herself. At the market we bought 2 bunches of flowers and she made them into 4, arranging them in small vases.
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adding some green leaves to the dahlias |
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we need some pink in this composition |
She also enjoys watering the plants on the balcony.
Involving her in the household chores was one of the greatest idea and I’m really glad she likes it, too. It gives us the opportunity to be together, to practise her languages, to experience some practicalities of everyday life and to help her become more and more independent.
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